Why is it that some people get to make all the decisions, and others have to just follow those decisions. However if the follower is upset with said decisions or outcomes, and speaks up then get blamed that they are making it harder on decision makers and just should have kept their mouth shut. IT's like oh awesome, so you made me feel like shit but I have to be careful to not make you feel like shit, oh ok I see how it works. Right it's all about the person who is self-absorbed. They think that by expressing how one feels it's I guess not being nice but really its just telling you how one feels so that maybe you could make a better decision to make the outcomes positive for all. It's not rocket science, it's actually quite simple.
Make your decision.
Then outcome will happen.
Outcome hut someone.
Someone tells you the decision had a negative effect.
You modify decision to ensure positive outcome for all.
See like I said EASY. It should not been seen as being attacked or being blamed. Even though it was your decision, there may have been something that completely messed with he reason why the person felt the way hey did that you couldn't anticipate. So now you know you just make it better. Not hard at all but I\m learning some people are just so completely about themselves they can't even see that this is the problem, ot that this is what they are doing. They just suck the good out till it's all used up.
End of rant.
Peace, love and light!
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